Relationship breakdown is one of the most challenging experiences you will ever go through. Parental separation may also be very stressful for your child because a child's parents are the most important people in their lives.

Your child will benefit from continuing care and support from you and your former partner post-separation. The negative impact of separation will be reduced if both parents agree about the future.

Where possible, and subject to any safety issues, it will be beneficial to your child to enter into arrangements where:

  • Both parents (and extended family members) continue to have a meaningful relationship with your child;
  • Responsibility for your child is shared by both parents; and
  • A safe environment is provided for your child without violence or abuse.

Our Toowoomba Family Law team, led by Murray Crawford, offers a confidential, fixed-fee appointment to provide advice about all aspects of parenting matters. And we help you plan the way forward, given your unique circumstances.

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Parenting Matters in Australia

The terms “custody” and “access” or “contact” were used for many years but are no longer applicable in Australian family law.

In Australia, family law disputes relating to the care of and responsibility for a child are now known as parenting matters. The concept of parenting has been introduced to better reflect an emphasis on what is in the child’s best interests as opposed to the parent’s best interests.

Children have the rights in a parenting dispute, not the parents. They have a right to spend time with and have a ‘meaningful relationship’ with both parents.

Parental responsibility refers to all the duties, powers, and authority a parent has concerning their child.

Parents have a responsibility to act in the best interests of their children. When making parenting arrangements, Australian family law requires the child’s best interests are given paramount consideration.

If it is safe to do so, it is generally best if you and your former spouse or partner can reach your own agreement on parenting arrangements.

Not only will making your own agreement benefit all family members, but you will also save money, time, and stress.

Family law is complex, and legal advice will help you understand your rights and responsibilities.

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Relevant Factors for Determining Child Arrangements

Disagreements and litigation regarding parenting arrangements are taxing on both parents. As a general guide and to avoid parental conflict, it may be helpful for parents to know the factors considered by the Federal Circuit and Family Court of Australia (the Court) in making parenting orders.

The Family Law Act 1975 stipulates what matters the Court must consider when making parenting orders.

The overarching principle is that the Court must make orders that are in the children’s best interests. In determining what is in a child’s “best interests” (pursuant to changes to the Family Law Act 1975 effective from 6 May 2024) the Court must have regard to:

  • Six “general considerations”; and
  • Two further considerations if the child is Aboriginal or Torres Strait Islander.

The six general considerations are non-hierarchal, that is, the Court is not required to give more weight to one factor over the others. They are:

  • What arrangements would best promote the safety of the children from family violence, abuse, neglect, or other harm and would also protect those who have care of the children.
  • Any views expressed by the children.
  • The developmental, psychological, emotional, and cultural needs of the children.
  • The capacity and willingness of each intending carer to not only provide for each child’s needs but also to seek their own support in helping them with those duties.
  • The benefit to each child of being able to have a relationship with both parents and other people of significance (such as grandparents) where it is safe to do so.
  • Anything else relevant to the child’s circumstances.

Additionally, if the child is an Aboriginal or Torres Strait Islander child, the Court must consider the child’s right to enjoy their culture by having the opportunity to connect with and maintain their connection with their family, community, culture, country, and language, and the likely impact any proposed parenting order will have on that right.

Under Australian law, no distinction is made in parenting matters between mothers and fathers who have been married, in a de facto relationship, or have never been in a relationship. The relationship status of the parents is irrelevant to the consideration of parenting matters.

There may be a community perception that mothers are the preferred primary caregivers of children under Australian legislation. This is not accurate. The Family Law Act 1975 is gender neutral.

Each child custody case is different and presents a unique set of family circumstances. The Court will consider all relevant factors before determining the final child arrangements.

Suppose you wish to negotiate a parenting arrangement or are involved in a parenting dispute. In either case it is crucial to obtain legal advice from an experienced family lawyer without delay.

Parenting Time

There is no rule requiring children to spend 50/50 or equal time with each parent (pursuant to changes to the Family Law Act 1975 effective from 6 May 2024). The Court looks at what is in the best interests of the children according to general considerations specified in the family law legislation.

There are six general considerations that the Court must consider (effective from May 2024) for determining the “best interests” of children:

  1. What arrangements would best promote the safety of the children from family violence, abuse, neglect, or other harm and would also protect those who have the care of the children. This is a very wide ambit, giving the Court broad discretion. But it will serve to protect those who are in high conflict situations.
  1. Any views expressed by the children. The weight given to these wishes will depend heavily upon their age and emotional maturity.
  1. The developmental, psychological, emotional, and cultural needs of the children. This is part of a “child-focussed” approach to cater for the individual needs of each child.
  1. The benefit to each child of being able to have a relationship with both parents and other people of significance (such as grandparents) where it is safe for the child.
  1. The capacity and willingness of each intended carer to not only provide for each child’s needs, but also to seek their own support to help them with those duties.
  1. Anything else relevant to the child’s circumstances.

Additionally, if the child is an Aboriginal or Torres Strait Islander child, the Court must consider the child’s right to enjoy their culture by having the opportunity to connect with and maintain their connection with their family, community, culture, country, and language, and the likely impact any proposed parenting order will have on that right.

Family Violence or Child Abuse Considerations

The Court must be informed if:

  • A child is at risk of family violence or child abuse;
  • There are any relevant family violence orders in existence;
  • A child is under the care of a welfare authority; or
  • A child or family member is being investigated by a welfare authority.

Orders will be made to protect children where a court finds there has been family violence or child abuse.

Suppose a child is at risk in the care of a parent. In that case, the Court can order that specific conditions be applied to time spent or communication with that parent.

Orders can also be made to supervise interactions between the child and parent.

The Court may appoint an independent children’s lawyer to investigate matters concerning the welfare of a child. The independent children’s lawyer may make recommendations regarding the best interests of that child.

Suppose a conflict exists between a state or territory family violence order and a family law parenting order. In that case, the parenting order will override (replace) the family violence order. The Court can compel a state or territory child welfare agency to provide information about family violence or child abuse issues.

Parenting Agreements and Parenting Orders

There are many ways to ensure that children have an ongoing relationship with both parents. If it is safe to do so, it is generally best if parents agree on parenting arrangements. Making your own agreement will save money, time, and stress.

Parents can put parenting arrangements in place in one of three ways:

  • Informal arrangements;
  • Parenting plans; and
  • Parenting orders, including consent orders.

If you agree on arrangements, you can make a parenting plan or seek to formalise your agreement by applying for consent orders.

Suppose you cannot agree on all issues. In that case, you can participate in dispute resolution or mediation to resolve matters in dispute. If an agreement cannot be reached, an application can be made to the Court for parenting orders.

Suppose you wish to negotiate a parenting arrangement or are involved in a parenting dispute. Obtaining legal advice without delay from an experienced family lawyer is essential. Contact CLO Lawyers using the enquiry form below to arrange for a consultation with a dedicated family lawyer.

Agreement on Parenting Arrangements

It is unnecessary to go to Court where an agreement is reached about arrangements for your child. However, parenting arrangements should be formally documented.

Formalising your arrangements will ensure that each party understands the terms of the agreement and reduce the likelihood of misunderstandings and disputes in the future.

There are two ways to formalise your parenting arrangement under the Family Law Act 1975:

  • A Parenting Plan; and
  • Consent Orders approved by the Court.

When negotiating arrangements for your children, it is essential to obtain legal advice from an experienced family lawyer.

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Parenting Plans

A parenting plan is a written agreement that sets out parenting arrangements for your child.

The plan is agreed upon jointly. No Court involvement is required to enter into a parenting plan. However, it is recommended that all parties obtain legal advice before entering into a parenting plan.

A parenting plan is not a legally enforceable agreement. It is different from a parenting order, which is made by a court.

Consent Orders

Consent orders are orders made by a Court with the agreement of all parties.

Consent Orders can be made without a court hearing. However, they are legally binding because they are court orders.

When a parenting order is made, each party to the order must follow it. Contravening (breaching) an order can have serious consequences, including imprisonment in extreme cases.

No Agreement on Parenting Arrangements

Suppose you and the other parent cannot agree on parenting arrangements for your child. Parents who cannot agree on all issues can participate in dispute resolution or mediation to resolve matters in dispute.

If an agreement cannot be reached, an application can be made to the Court for parenting orders. However, there are procedures you must follow before filing a court application.

Before you apply to the Court for a parenting order, you must usually participate in family dispute resolution (FDR) counselling. Certain exemptions apply to this requirement for FDR counselling, for example, where the matter is urgent.

Financial Responsibility For Children

Each parent has a legal duty to provide financial support for their child after separation, regardless of who the child lives with. Parents can make their own child support arrangements or apply for a child support assessment.

The Department of Human Services administers the child support program, assisting parents in providing support for their children.

Child Custody & Parenting Arrangements FAQ: Frequently Asked Questions

The family law terms “custody” and “access” relating to children were used for many years but have been replaced in Australian Family Law legislation. Family law disputes in Australia relating to the care of and responsibility for children are now known as parenting matters.

The Court must make orders that are in the best interests of children.

There are six general considerations that the Court must consider (effective from May 2024) for determining the “best interests” of children:

  1. What arrangements would best promote the safety of the children from family violence, abuse, neglect, or other harm and would also protect those who have the care of the children. This is a very wide ambit, giving the Court broad discretion. But it will serve to protect those who are in high conflict situations.
  1. Any views expressed by the children. The weight given to these wishes will depend heavily upon their age and emotional maturity.
  1. The developmental, psychological, emotional, and cultural needs of the children. This is part of a “child-focussed” approach to cater for the individual needs of each child.
  1. The benefit to each child of being able to have a relationship with both parents and other people of significance (such as grandparents) where it is safe for the child.
  1. The capacity and willingness of each intended carer to not only provide for each child’s needs, but also to seek their own support to help them with those duties.
  1. Anything else relevant to the child’s circumstances.

Additionally, if the child is an Aboriginal or Torres Strait Islander child, the Court must consider the child’s right to enjoy their culture by having the opportunity to connect with and maintain their connection with their family, community, culture, country, and language, and the likely impact any proposed parenting order will have on that right.

The Court must be informed if:

  • A child is at risk of family violence or child abuse;
  • There are any relevant family violence orders in existence;
  • A child is under the care of a welfare authority; or
  • A child or family member is being investigated by a welfare authority.

Orders will be made to protect children where a court finds there has been family violence or child abuse.

Suppose there is a conflict between a state or territory family violence order and a parenting order made by the Federal Circuit and Family Court of Australia. In that case, the parenting order will override (replace) the family violence order.

Neither mothers nor fathers are the preferred primary caregivers for children under Australian family law. The Family Law Act 1975 is gender neutral.

A parenting plan is a written agreement that sets out parenting arrangements for children. It is agreed jointly.

The parties to a parenting plan do not need to go to Court. However, all parties to the parenting plan should seek legal advice before entering into the arrangement.

A parenting plan is not a legally enforceable agreement. It is different from a parenting order, which is made by a Court.

Consent orders are arrangements agreed upon by parents, made by the Federal Circuit and Family Court of Australia.

Even though consent orders are made by agreement, they are legally binding. They can be made without a court hearing but are legally binding because they are court orders.

Both parents must support children financially after separation, regardless of who they live with. Parents can manage this between themselves or apply for a child support assessment.

Suppose you wish to negotiate a parenting arrangement or are involved in a parenting dispute. In that case, it is essential to obtain legal advice from an experienced family lawyer at the earliest opportunity. Contact CLO Lawyers using the enquiry form below to arrange for a consultation with a dedicated family lawyer.